Back in August I announced there would be “no more school time” round here – at least for a while – as we take another step towards unschooling.

I thought I’d post a monthly round-up of how unschooling is going. (Yes I know it’s mid-October already, but we went away for a week at the start of this month so I’m a bit behind. It’s a hard life ;-))

What’s been going well

C(9) and J(8) have been busy with their own projects – individually and together – and I don’t think I’ve suggested anything they haven’t wanted to do. (Hurray!)

We’ve followed our usual routine of copywork and maths, and we’ve done some fun history projects (more on these soon).

We’ve been reading aloud Understood Betsy, a delightful tale I first came across on a homeschool blog a couple of years ago. (Thank you, if it was yours!)

We made machines using air pressure and water pressure.

And I’ve been delighted to see C(9) spontaneously creating art again, which she hadn’t done for a while. As well as painting and art journaling, she excitedly seized some packaging the minute I unwrapped an Amazon delivery, to make into a room set. I love it when that happens!

We had plenty of time to enjoy being outdoors.

And I had time to try out some new recipes I found at my new favourite food website, MOMables.

What I’m working on

This month I intend to be a bit more organised about planning maths and science projects. I have so many ideas in my head and on Evernote, but I need to plan specific days to actually suggest them to the children.

I’m also excited about beginning SQUILT, which looks beautifully simple to use, even for a musical ignoramus like me.

Changes I’m planning

I’ve suggested to the kids that on weekdays we try and hang out together a few hours a day in our family room, even if we’re each doing our own thing.

Without “school time” bringing us together, I’ve found there are days when I lose the kids to their rooms. While that can be quite appealing to the introvert in me, I think we might get more learning done if we spend at least some time together!

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Please bear with me if posts are a bit sparse for the next few weeks – poor Fun Dad has just broken his ankle wakeboarding, so won’t be available for his usual cooking and chauffeuring back-up. Please send healing vibes for a fast recovery, for all our sakes!

I’m appreciatively linking up here:

Homegrown Learners – Collage Friday

Weird Unsocialized Homeschoolers – Weekly Wrap-Up

Homeschool Mother’s Journal

In part 1 of this post I suggested five reasons why we might want to have something to show for our children’s learning:

1. Creating deepens understanding

2. As evidence of learning a process

3. As part of learning to share what we know

4.To set up a learning trail for a specific subject

5. To create a general learning trail

What this doesn’t mean is that if a child has nothing tangible to show for what he’s been doing, he hasn’t learned anything – we’re all inspired more by some ideas than others.

But from time to time I find myself looking around and wondering if my children are producing enough, overall, to meet the five good reasons.

What if they aren’t producing “enough”?

When I hear people say “I had my son write a report on …” or “I required five paragraphs about …” part of me goes off into a little reverie, imagining how pleasant homeschooling life would be if I could spend my time  designing wonderful projects in the knowledge that my children would cheerfully read and write everything I asked them to.

But this style of homeschooling just wouldn’t work around here. My children have to be inspired – not required – to put pen to paper (or fingers to keyboard, or paint to paper). My role, as I see it, is to create an environment which nurtures the conditions for their creativity to flourish.  I strew resources, I make suggestions, I share what I’m doing, we chat about things over lunch.  Then I step back and give them space for their own authentic self-expression.

This step-back approach produces fewer tangible “products” than if we were using more curricula, or if I “required” assignments. What is produced is more valuable than dozens of neatly bound fill-in-the-gaps “notebook” pages.

But there are times when I wonder if they are creating enough. My knee-jerk response in the past might have been to insist that they make a notebook page for the next history topic we cover or science experiment we do. But these days I try to step back and look at why I’m feeling uneasy about the lack of written work. Then I consider how, as my children’s learning mentor, I can help meet these underlying needs.

If I want to encourage them to deepen their learning

I can ask questions, write down and display their questions (or suggest that they do so) and chat about their projects. Sometimes these conversations lead to things being created, sometimes they don’t. Either way, their learning deepens,  or I satisfy myself that they’ve taken the subject as far as they want to for now.

Do my children need to learn a specific process or skills?

Whatever work our children do as adults, it will involve sharing their knowledge, and they need opportunities to practise ways of doing this.

There are lots of processes and skills I want my children to learn, but I don’t see it as my role to dictate exactly when and how they do so.  Instead, I make sure they know that the skill exists and that there are interesting ways of learning it. I highlight examples of how useful it is to have the skill, and I look for a variety of opportunities for them to practise it.

Then I remind myself to trust their natural learning process. There are so many ways to learn in a lifetime.  

Do I want to create a learning trail for a particular subject?

If I know we’re going to come back to a topic at a later date, I might suggest making a lapbook or notebook page. But if the children are busy with ideas of their own, I don’t insist. I take photos and journal notes, maybe write a blog post. This will help me remind them what they did next time we visit the topic.

Is our general learning trail looking a bit sparse?

If I find myself wondering this, it’s time to step back and get some perspective.  I take stock of what my children have learned over the years. I thumb through our “Adventures in Home Education” photo albums. I look back through my blog and my journal. I remind the children of questions and ideas they’ve had. I do whatever it takes to remind myself to trust the natural learning process.

As I said in part 1, the title of this post is a question because this is an ongoing enquiry for me. I’ve tried to summarise my own current “best practices”, but  I admit to breaking all my own “rules” fairly regularly! (And that’s okay – I’m learning here, too.)

Do you ever wonder if your children should be “producing” more? How do you encourage them (or reassure yourself)?

Back when we were using curriculum in our homeschool, it was easy to point to the “evidence” that showed that my children were learning.  As we made our way through history, science and maths materials, they would fill in the gaps in worksheets “notebook pages” or assemble pre-fabricated lapbooks, and at the end of the term I collated their “learning” into neatly labelled volumes ready to wave at imaginary doubters – “See! I did teach my children science!”

But now that we’ve moved to a more interest-led homeschooling style, what do I have to show for their learning? If my daughter engages in an activity but doesn’t have anything tangible to show at the end of it, does that mean she hasn’t learned anything? Of course not.  But  that doesn’t mean that tangible outcomes don’t contribute to learning. As Lori Pickert puts it,

“Your child represents his learning by making, and he learns while making.”

Project-Based Homeschooling: Mentoring Self-Directed Learners

There seem to be good and bad reasons for wanting our children to produce “something to show” for learning.  Representations created for good reasons deepen learning.  Bad reasons, on the other hand, may not have anything to do with our children’s learning, but instead stem from some extraneous factor like our own anxiety.

(Note that I am not talking here about compliance with homeschool reporting laws, which we’re lucky enough not to be subject to.)

5 Good Reasons to Have Something to Show for Learning

1. Creating deepens understanding

There are different levels of learning, all appropriate at different times.  For example, I read lots of books about homeschooling, but I don’t engage with them all in the same way.   I might adopt a couple of ideas from one book and then put it back on the shelf.  I might talk about another with my husband or homeschooling friends.  If I’m really inspired by a book, I might take notes from it or write a review.  Each of those actions represents a different level of engagement with the subject matter, and in general the more I have to “show” for what I’ve learned, the better I understand it. But that doesn’t mean I should review every book I read – some ideas inspire me more than others.

When C(8) was doing a project on electricity, she learned about Benjamin Franklin, lightening, circuits and electromotors. Of all the things I might have expected her to create, perhaps the least likely was an illustrated essay about electrons. She chose to create the piece as a way of consolidating her understanding and to share what she’d learned.  Like me, she learns best when she’s free to choose how deeply to engage with each subject.

2. As a by-product of learning a process

When we’re learning to write, we might produce stories and poems.  When we’re learning to paint, we create artwork.  But when we get hung up on the form of these “products”, we interfere with the learning. Sometimes it’s about the process, not the end result.

“Children need time to master materials before they can work purposefully.”

Lori Pickert

Young children experiment with paints and paper because it’s fun.  Most adults never touch art or craft materials.  They’ve become so focused on the idea of the perfect product that they’ve forgotten how to play. They never write for pleasure because when they try, they discover their writing sucks compared with what they enjoy reading. Of course it does – to improve our writing skills, we need to spend time engaging with words without the pressure to produce the perfect novel.

Children need time and space to learn how to use materials without being required to produce defined outcomes. Then when they have something authentic to share, they’ll have the skills to produce representations that are pleasing to them.

3. Sharing what we know

Making representions teaches children to share what they’ve learned – a skill they’ll call on throughout their lives.  Whatever work our children choose to do as adults, it will involve sharing their knowledge and skills with others. They might share orally or in written form, using video or pictures or some other art form, and sharing might be live in person or asynchronously. As children, they need opportunities to practise different types of sharing, to build confidence and help them discover what they enjoy.

C(9) recently decided to post some of her paintings on her blog. She’s learning the communication and technical skills involved compiling and publishing blog posts, as well as sharing her art.  J(7) saw what C(9) was doing and wanted to start his own blog. He writes (dictates) about his favourite computer games. Both children were intrinsically motivated to represent their learning in a form they could share with other people.

3. To create a learning trail for a specific subject

When we recently studied Japanese history, I got out the lapbooks my children made when we looked at modern Japan last year. The lapbooks were wonderful visual reminders of what they had learned before. Connections were made at a faster rate; they were more quickly engaged.

It was great that in that instance we were able to look back on material made by the children. But that’s not a reason to insist that they create something in relation to everything they learn. Sometimes, as their mentor, I need to find other ways to remind them what came before. (More about this in part 2.)

4. To create a general learning trail

There’s value in being able to look back over past learning.  We get a sense of satisfaction, fun is re-lived, and learning is reviewed. While I think this is an authentic reason for wanting to have “something to show” for learning, of all the reasons I find this one the most susceptible to misappropriation.

If I look around my home and notice a lack of neatly handwritten notebooks on our shelf, anxiety can creep in about whether I’m fulfilling my responsibilities. If I’m not careful, this is when I’m prone to jump in and interfere with my children’s natural learning process by insisting they write something of my choosing.

I guard against this tendency by taking plenty of photos and keeping a learning journal. Yes, I want my children to have something to look back on to remind them of all the things they’ve learned, but in my experience the more intrinsically motivated a child has been to create a piece of work, the more likely it is to be treasured and reviewed.

What if they aren’t producing enough?

In part 2,  I’ll share some strategies I use when I get to worrying that I’m not seeing enough homeschooling “results”.

I also emphasise by way of disclaimer that this is an ongoing enquiry for me: I don’t have all the answers, I’m just sharing what’s working for us at the moment. And I most definitely welcome your thoughts and experiences on the subject – I need all the help I can get!